All Coming Together Really Well…

I’m writing this because I have had a few people asking for an update – what have we been up to? Have any of our kids run off yet?

Ok, so it’s 10 months into when the Covid-19 panic started and I guess we as a family were not as affected as most, thankfully. It was, for the most part, business or study as usual.

What’s been pretty incredible for us is that in the last few months the whole homeschooling project, which is kind of nearing its end, or, you could say going into a new phase, really feels like it has been an overall success.

Now, sure, academically it was always a success from around 4 years ago, when the kids started doing their public exams, but here’s why I feel that in so many other ways it has been a success too…

So, Maryam (16) and Danyal (14) haven’t done any academic study for 2 years.

Maryam has been ‘working’ in the company I run, Jibble, and should, in a few months, be running the entire digital marketing of the company – and so be completely responsible for a US$400k annual budget. She’s learned things fast, she works hard, and she enjoys it.

Meanwhile, Danyal has been coding and he too has started ‘working’ at Jibble. I can see him progressing fast as he’s coding 12 x 7 – well, it’d Covid time so there isn’t much else to do!

I feel that within a few months both of them would be able to get beyond graduate-level jobs at a top tech company with the skills they will have acquired – most tech companies don’t care about degrees. We used to contemplate them perhaps doing degrees – but now we are absolutely sure there is no point as long as this continues.

You guys might think that I’m taking it easy on them. Kids lazing around in daddy’s business, being spoilt. Sure, I’m the CEO of Jibble, but honestly they need to achieve a higher benchmark because I’m very aware of their privileges. Those of you who read my writings will know my biggest fear for my kids isn’t that they don’t inherit enough money, it’s that they end up spoilt and lazy, achieving nothing in their lives.

Part of the reason they’re doing well is that my wife and I are personally guiding them and pushing them- and we can be more direct with them than with employees – I mean, they’re our kids too. For example, if they’re assigned work by a manager I tell them to work damn hard and get it done well and fast – it’s like they’re getting constant one-on-one coaching on how to succeed in a tech company.

I am confident that if they maintain their drive they’ll achieve big things. So it’s odd, we have four of us – my wife, Maryam, Danyal, and myself all working really hard for Jibble.

And finally, Sabeen (12) is doing her A-levels in January (first paper tomorrow) and in June 2021 – Mathematics and Accounting. She seems to be doing fine. Like her siblings, I don’t think she wants to study further – but we’ve not discussed that yet.

What we hate about the formal exams is that they really tie us up – once Sabeen has finished her exams it’s kind of cool that we can go anywhere anytime – remember, Jibble is a run remotely.

Oh, and one more thing, we can really see our persistence with the languages paying off. The kids are now at least close to conversant in all their 6 languages – all learned by simply chatting to someone over Skype 3 times a week.

Overall, the homeschool leading on to business has worked out REALLY well.

Sorry for any typos – I’m short of time. Stay safe everyone! ๐Ÿ™

Author: Asim Qureshi

Passionate about tech startups, home schooling, barefoot running and squash.

3 thoughts on “All Coming Together Really Well…”

  1. I read your blog years ago and it has left a mark to say the least, We decided to have kids and are hardcore homeschoolers even though he is only 4 :). you gave us the insight and vision to actually do it and I will be forever grateful, I really enjoyed the update and I’m happy I got to grow up with the kids too on their journey through life , I wish them all the best and maybe one day we could all meet up and i could explain to my kids what impact you and your family had on our entire lives ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. AOA Asim, I’ve really enjoyed following their progress over the years, and looking forward to get the other side of the story, i.e. your children’s perspective on all this.

    What did they enjoy, what would they have done differently? What would they want to tell my 4 home-schooled children (11, 9, 7, 4) for example, a been there/done that type of post.

    Yes, Covid hasn’t made much of an impact on our lives either, except pretty much validate everything we’d been thinking when we started down this journey.

    Thanks for sharing.

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